First off welcome back to the Inn its always nice to see a member of the old crowd still around.
As for calling the Inn a graveyard
I'm sorry you feel that way, as for me the Inn is still the same place it has always been. There are some good games running, a number of new Innmates and some very good DM's here. Maybe what you need to do is get more involved like you said instead of just being a lurker. Start a game or join one make suggestions, start a thread like this one. Sometimes all it takes for change is one person willing to actually take an interest.